Blood Diamon

Delilah Crespo Mr. McParland English 101 October 24, 2010 In the article Im Happy with an Arranged Marriage by Gitangeli Sapra it discusses her view of arranged unions. Ms. Gitangeli is for arranged marriage, she stated that quite a little who get married for love has a 40% rate of divorce. She also states that arranged marriages have a lower rate of divorce for the fact that the couples do not emergency to start a exasperation between their families.I disagree I believe that families should not have the right to set up their children with who they cogitate best suits their child. I mortalally would not prefer my p bents to set me up with someone who they think is a great person, be build I have different standards then they do. If parents were to choose who they want their child to follow then they will be involved in the couples lives, therefore if the relationship is not working out the couple would be too scared to get a divorce because of what their family tycoon do.Some countries make arranged marriage mandatory, and some people actually agree with it but others much(prenominal) as me do not. Fatma Uncon was a twenty year old female person who was twinged into an arranged marriage, which she did not want. Since she was forced she decided to commit suicide by shooting herself with her fathers handgun. Another female named Gulbahar Karokoyn was also forced into an arranged marriage, which she did not want. She was forced into marrying her uncles son, therefore she also committed suicide.These cardinal young females committed suicide because they felt pressured and forced into something which they did not want. They felt that by ending their invigoration they would finally be free. I asked one of my friend if she was for arranged marriage and she stated no, I want to fall in love with the person before I get married not my parents, they are not the ones who has to stay with this specific person their entire life so why should they choose who I mar ry. I completely agree with her because it is true why should anyone tell me who I should marry.Altogether, as I stated before I do not think arranged marriage is a good idea. I believe that people should decide who they want to be with. Their parents should not force you to choose who you want to make your life long partner, because you will be the one who has to be with that person for life. Also arranged marriages might make people feel too trapped and that might cause them to do something to harm themselves or their partner. Therefore I believe the choice should be yours.